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Through our eyes

I often wonder about the parts of the world we are oblivious to. We don’t see infrared light, we can’t see see the fast moving wings of an insect. We don’t sense an earthquake coming like some animals do. We can’t pick up ultrasound like dolphins. We don’t have a sense of direction using the magnetic field like butterflies and birds.

A cat is fast enough to avoid the strike of a snake, a dog’s smell is magnitudes more sensitive than ours. The greater wax moth has the best hearing of any known animal, able to detect ultrasonic frequencies up to around 300 kHz, far beyond what bats and other animals can hear.

We walk around perceiving the world with less than perfect senses. And even though we can use tools that can measure things we cannot detect on our own, even with the most sensitive tools, we don’t know where our consciousness comes from. We know that we have imperfect brains with imperfect senses only partially observing the world around us, but we don’t understand who we the observer really is.

Am I my own thoughts? When the voice in my head asks a question, who am I asking? When I change my mind, what exactly is happening in my physical body? Is my consciousness more aware of things my senses don’t pick up? Could it be?

I think of our consciousness as far more capable than our faulty human senses allow, but it is forced to observe the world through our eyes, through our faulty, inaccurate, and oblivious senses… which limits its power and potential. The great filters are our senses. They aren’t so much faulty as limited, and they ultimately limit us.

Thief or Inspiration?

We’ve all heard that comparison can be the thief of joy. However, it can also be the inspiration for success.

As of April 2026, only two runners have officially completed a marathon in under two hours: Sabastian Sawe, who set a world record with 1:59:30 at the London Marathon, and Yomif Kejelcha, who finished second with 1:59:41. Previously, Eliud Kipchoge ran a sub-two-hour marathon in 2019 during the Ineos 1:59 Challenge, but this was not under official race conditions.

Like the 4-minute mile barrier, now that the elusive 2–hour marathon barrier has been broken, we will see more athletes achieving this in the coming months and years.

Comparison can steal joy, compassion can inspire greatness. Even before you make a comparison, you make a choice… You decide why you are making the comparison.

Thief or Inspiration?

The big question about everyday moments

It’s not rocket science. It’s a simple concept, easy to understand, and yet hard to live.

A lot of life is mundane. Cleaning yourself, your dishes, your clothes, your bathroom… preparing food, getting dressed, lawn & garden care… Commuting, grocery shopping, vacuuming…

So much time is dedicated to small things that take our time. Mundane things that we have to do regularly. Since so much time is dedicated to these moments that make up most of our day, a big question to ponder is, how do we find joy in everyday moments?

Doing laundry can be a chore, or it can be a chance to sing unabashedly, or to engross yourself in an audiobook. Cooking can be a boring set of tasks like chopping vegetables and measuring cups of flower, or it can be a labour of love that brings as much joy as eating the delicious end product.

The big question to ask yourself is if you choose to see these tasks as mundane and necessary but uninteresting, or if you choose to embrace these moments as opportunities to appreciate your life, and to find meaning in doing the tasks that you need to do. Because these tiny moments add up to more life experiences than the things you normally look forward to.

Why not choose to appreciate everyday moments?

Shared Experiences

This was my first Thanksgiving that I spent away from my immediate family that I can remember. It’s not like Thanksgiving is a special holiday for us, but I’ve been away from my family for 22 of the last 30 days and so not being there for a family event was something I definitely noticed.

Meanwhile, for the past couple weeks I’ve had some amazing opportunities to connect with my mom, uncle, and family and friends I don’t normally see. It has been an absolute treat to spend time with them. So, it’s not like I’m missing out, I am just not used to being away from my wife and kids for so long.

What I’m noticing is how much I value shared experiences with people I care about. Time with family and friends is precious. The quality of our experiences are made richer by who we share our time with. This seems like something overly obvious to say, but I think it’s worth noting ‘out loud’… who we spend our time with really matters.

Never feeling ready

I heard this in a social media post yesterday and it’s sticking with me:

You’ll never feel ready because ready isn’t a feeling. It’s a decision.

How many times have I planned to do something then thought, ‘I’m not ready’?

Sure, this might not help if, for example, I’m talking about a test I haven’t studied for. There are the kinds of ‘ready’ that require preparation, planning, and practice. But there are a thousand little decisions we delay because we don’t feel ready, when all we’re really doing is delaying for fear of failure or embarrassment or rejection or any number of negative rationalizations that we create in our head that tell us we aren’t ready.

Ready is not a feeling. So don’t wait for the feeling. Ready is a decision.

Slower pace

Talking to my wife tonight, I mentioned how things have slowed down now that I’m staying with my mom on my Ontario holiday. “No kidding”, she said, “You needed this!”

I really did. I’ve been kind of going non-stop since mid August. And between everything I did to make it busy, my time at home was dealing with our renovation and clean up after it was done or prepping for my next event. I’ve been moving fast for quite a while now and a slow down feels really good.

Sometimes you need to hear it from someone else to recognize you are right where you need to be.

Where does the time go?

A few weeks ago I made some travel plan changes. I was planning to travel to Ontario today, but I called friends to let them know I was headed this way and one told me that they had a big party planned for last night, so I moved my plans to a day earlier and joined the celebrations.

I met these friends in 1986, when I went to university… 40 years ago. A few of the couple s there, and their kids, I’ve visited or reconnected with on and off over the years. They are truly awesome friends that I wish I lived closer to. But I moved to BC in ‘93 and visits have been sparse.

Also at the party were some of my friend’s friends whom I haven’t seen since moving. I was catching up with people I haven’t seen in more than 30 years. More grey hair and wrinkles, and whole families of kids to learn about, but still very much the same people.

An experience like last night really puts life in perspective. I’m left wondering how so much time could have passed? This will sound weird, but I wonder how ended up my parent’s age? I say that because the party included a live band, (a friend of the hosts who also met them 40 years ago), and as I looked at my generation and the next generation (my friend’s kids & their friends) dancing to Tragically Hip, the Rolling Stones, and even Led Zeppelin songs, I felt young again. I wasn’t a near 60 year old guy at a friend’s party, I was a kid at a backyard party. No adult supervision in sight.

Will feeling like I’m not old ever get old? Or am I going to forever wonder why I feel younger than I am… asking myself, ‘Where does the time go?’

On the move

I’m on a plane headed to Toronto. It’s about to land. I’m going for a vacation to visit family and friends for a few weeks. The last time I did a holiday in October, I was living in China working at a school that had a week off in the month. It still feels weird taking a trip like this during the school year. I’m feeling like I’ve just had an extended summer, which will come to an end after this trip. It’s not.

In the coming weeks, I’ll be visiting at least 6 different cities/towns and will likely drive well over 1,500 km. The longest I’ll stay in any one place is 4 days, so I’ll be living out of a suitcase. Maybe this trip will be the thing that changes the gear in my head that feels like work is returning soon. Or maybe it’ll happen when I’m back home and into a routine?

Last Tuesday was the first time I went back into a school this school year. I visited a principal friend at a high school. Then on Thursday I visited my old school and spent some time with the new principal along with former staff and students. I had no pangs, I didn’t feel like I was missing out. The visits were great and then it felt good to leave.

Ultimately, I’m thrilled with my decision to retire. Zero regrets. I’m just not used to the fact that I’m this free to do what I want to do at this time of year. Thinking about it now, it’s nice to know that I don’t have to worry about a staff meeting on Monday. I just need to know if I’m sleeping on a couch or in a guest room? I like that question more than any that ever came out of a staff meeting.

Ordinary Moments

I often wonder what ordinary moments weren’t ordinary at all?

Here are 3 examples to think about:

1. The era specific moments.

Remember those times as a kid when you were on your bicycle and you felt a cool summer breeze brush across your face? You didn’t have to be home until the street lights came on and you and your buddies were riding fast and free. Those were special moments never to be recaptured.

2. The decision.

You finally quit the job you didn’t like. You decided to go back to school. You quit something and it’s either a big mistake or the best choice you could have made.

3. The oblivious moments.

It’s just pure luck. You forgot your car keys and had to turn around. Or you looked down at your car radio and didn’t take off right when the light turned green… You did something to delay you and because of that simple moment you avoided an accident.

I wonder how many extraordinary moments we have, which we think are just ordinary?

The math behind experiences

I wrote a 3-Part West Coast Trail series (1, 2, 3) after returning home from the trip. My buddy Dave and I, ‘The Two Daves’, have had some amazing experiences in 6 weeks. St Mark’s Summit, Everesting the Crunch, Sea to Sky, Tofino, and the West Coast Trail. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to experience these things with Dave… and many others who have joined and supported us.

My visits to many places and gratitude towards many people has me thinking… The experiences we have are built on a simple equation:

Experiences = Places + People

We need both. Places that take us out of our usual routines, and people to share those places with.

It’s a simple equation, and yet it’s what brings us joy in our lives.