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Humankind’s End – Pet, Child, or Colleague? 

Part 1: Frog in the Pot

There is the story of the frog in the pot of boiling water which goes like this: Toss a frog into a boiling pot of water and it will instantly hop out, recognizing the danger of the hot water. However, put a frog in a cold pot of water, very slowly bring it to a boil, and the frog will swim around oblivious to the gradual change in temperature and it will swim until it boils to death. I’ve heard conflicting evidence that questions if this will actually happen, but I think this story is relevant to what we are seeing with AI – Artificial Intelligence – today. 

The reality is that AI is getting smarter and smarter. While there is debate as to when we will have AGI – Artificial General Intelligence or ASI – Artificial Super Intelligence, like the pot set to slowly boil, this time is coming, even if the timeline is unknown. 

What does this mean for us? Well, I would be hard pressed to tell you exactly when this happened, but at some point in the past people stopped doing complicated math calculations by hand and eventually relied more and more on calculators and computers. I could solve a problem like 12,458 divided by 27 to 5 decimal places by doing long division, but why would I? I can use a calculator. I’d know the answer would be accurate, and I’d get that answer much faster than doing the math myself. 

What happens when we get to the point when we have ASI, and all the answers to (almost) all the questions we can ask, can be answered faster and better by the super intelligent AI? Would we want to govern ourselves when the AI can do a better job? Would we want to trust a potentially crooked politician to make expensive economic decisions or would be pick the ASI? Would we want to trust a fallible doctor for a medical diagnosis or would we rather the doctor confer with a super intelligence that has access to every possible diagnosis, and which has looked at many million more scans than the doctor ever did, before making the diagnosis? 

We are approaching the ‘water boiling point’ where we are going to have Artificial Intelligence making most key decisions for us because we would be dumb to try to make those decisions ourselves when we know the ASI can do it so much better than we ever could. 

Part 2: Pet, Child, or Colleague? 

So, assuming that we are going to reach a metaphorical boiling point where we decide to let ASI make many if not most key decisions in our lives, what does the mean for humanity? I think there are one of three inevitable outcomes: We will either become AI’s pet, child, or colleague.

Here are the scenarios as I see them playing out:

Pet: We might think our dogs are pretty smart, but don’t want our dog to make decisions for us. A super intelligent AI may see us as only slightly more intelligent animals, who perhaps should be kept around. However, the super intelligence might not want to align with a warring, superstitious, short lived being who seems to have problems getting along as a species… a species who builds arbitrary borders and exclude each other rather than attempt to get along in any meaningful way. Why wouldn’t an ASI treat us more like pets than as equals? 

Child: We know children will make mistakes and bad decisions, that’s part of growing up. That’s why we have age limits for things like driving and drinking. Maybe an ASI will look at us like children who don’t fully understand how things work, and it will take care of us and manage us like children, taking our wishes into consideration, but not letting us make any crucial decisions on our own… of course it will do this ‘for our own good’… but ultimately treat us like immature children, never really ready to accept full responsibility for ourselves. 

Colleague: This might play out where we maintain our true humanity, but I don’t see it that way. Sure a super intelligent AI might look to collaborate and make our lives better while governing us, while also giving us a voice and some choice about how we are governed. But I envision a different kind of colleague experience. I envision an integration of humans and ASI to create a  cyborg – a being that features both organic and biomechatronic body parts… Essentially connecting our human form with AI integrated assistive parts. Why put up with a slow human with poor sensor capabilities when enhancements will make them much easier to work with? 

Part 3: Inevitability 

While I suspect that most of us would want the outcome to be Colleague, rather than Child or Pet, I don’t believe this is our decision.

We can try to design ASI such that it sees value in working with us, but when our intelligence compared to a super intelligent AI is the equivalent to how we look at chimps, dolphins, or Octopus, we really have to consider why they would want to integrate our intelligence with theirs? While we might look at a chimpanzee and think, “Oh how cute, that one can do sign language, and knows 350 signs,” we don’t also think, “Lets create a relations with that chimp in a way that we share intelligence with them and let them make decisions with or for us. And in the same vein, ASI is unlikely to look at a very bright human and think, “Oh how cute, that human can do abstract calculus or astrophysics in his head… let’s integrate ourselves with this simple creature.” 

Ultimately, an Artificial Super Intelligence is going to make the decision. Maybe there is something unique about the human brain or the human condition that would make an ASI want to integrate with us, but we can’t pretend to know if this would be of interest to the super intelligence or not. We can only hope that’s the case. The reality is that the metaphorical water is boiling, we don’t really know when it’s going to boil, and when it does the fate of humankind will not be up to us.

Just fish in a pond

Last night I was looking at some koi in a pond and I had a little epiphany. I was watching them swimming around and I realized that they are probably aware that there is a world beyond their pool, but they have no idea how big that world is? That’s when I realized… We are all just fish in a giant pond.

We are blissfully unaware of so many things beyond what our senses show us. As an example, there are frequencies of light and sound we can not see or hear. Our eyes have blind spots, and there are animals that can react to danger far faster than we can to the world around us.

Beyond of our limited hardware, there is the issue that we can’t find where in that hardware our consciousness lives? Far further beyond that, we live in an expanding universe and we’ll never get to know what lies beyond the visible universe.

Our pond is bigger than a koi pond, but the unknowns ‘out there’, beyond the metaphorical pond we are aware of, is significant. And while scientists discover things what we can see and touch, we really are just like the koi… living in a world that we know has so much more than what we are limited to observing by our hardware and our perspective.

The grief metaphor

This morning at the gym my buddy shared a metaphor about grief that I hadn’t heard before. He said that grief is like a heavy rock that you carry around with you in your pocket. Over time it doesn’t get any lighter but you grow stronger carrying it, and so it doesn’t feel as heavy over time… but you don’t let go of the rock.

This reminded me of hearing Scott Galloway on the Diary of a CEO podcast. Steven Bartlett said to Scott, “You said that you are a middle-aged man who hasn’t gotten over the loss of his mother. Is there a way to?

Scott replied, “I don’t want to. I think the receipts for love is grief. I hope my boys feel the same way about me. It hasn’t gotten in the way of my life. Makes me be more bold with my emotions.

Rocks. Receipts for love. Heavy stuff… but important to hold, as long as they don’t get in the way of living. And perhaps we can be stronger in many ways because we choose to hold them.

Leadership blindspots

We all have them, things we don’t see, even when we are looking right at them. We all have things that, over time, we get comfortable with and accept, that we would not accept if our perspective was fresh. We even have good habits that make our team better, but which also leaves us with blindspots because we focus on the progress we are making and miss the (hidden) costs of that progress.

This leaves us with two challenges:

The first being that we don’t know what we don’t know…. We don’t see our blindspots.

The second challenge is that when a blind spot is revealed, it’s often hard to accept. There’s guilt felt in not being aware of it earlier, and there is also the realization that you’ve got to move out of your comfort zone to deal with it… or ignore it and face even more guilt.

It’s an unglamorous aspect of leadership. No one is perfect, there are always things to improve, and whether you see them or not, whether you deal with them are not, you know there are blindspots… and having to face them is not easy.

Close to the source

Please visit Kelly Tenkely’s Substack and read, ‘Staying Close to the Source’. She starts with a wonderful metaphor,

“I was the kind of kid who loved to collect rocks. I was especially taken with any rock found in a stream or lake. Those rocks felt different. They seemed uniquely magical, luminous, and glittering just below the surface. Smooth, as if they’d been polished over time, their colors saturated and alive.”

… “Each time we visit a learner-centered school, I’m struck by that same kind of magic.”

I’ve had visitors to Inquiry Hub tell be they could feel this magic. They’ve described that this is a special place. They’ve been struck by the way our students share their learning experiences, and how open they are to articulate both their learning processes and their personal inquiries.

We still have percentage grades in grades 10-12, we are still a BC, Canada school providing our students with a regular diploma that they would get at any other school. But we offer opportunities that most students don’t get. We can’t compete with elective course offerings a big high school can provide, but we can have students design their own elective… but only after 1-2 years of doing shorter, less comprehensive, inquiries with continual reflection and sharing built into the process.

I’m not sure how this compares to the schools Kelly visited, but her post concludes with:

“May we stay closer to the source where learning happens. 

May we teach educators how to notice, how to listen, how to see the glitter. 

May we trust that teachers can sit beside learners and bear witness to their growth, without needing to pull it out of context to prove it exists.

Learning, when you’re close enough to see it, is unmistakable.”

This spoke to me, and reminded me of the special teachers and students I get to work with. I encourage everyone to read Kelly’s full post.

Simplify rather than shrink

I don’t remember where I heard this, but the concept has been on my mind recently:

Simplify rather than shrink.

The idea is that retirement doesn’t necessarily mean becoming less, but rather doing less. No I won’t be going into work anymore, and the titles and responsibilities will be less, but that doesn’t mean who I am will shrink. It’s way better to perceive the changes as simplifying my life. I’ll be able to wake up later than 5am, I won’t have to rush my morning workout, or race to get my writing done. On the contrary, I can work out for longer and write more.

I don’t have to rush the making of dinner, or choose a meal based on speed of preparation rather than preference. I won’t have to give up the quality and healthiness of a meal for convenience. I can also commit to some projects mid-week rather than waiting for the weekend.

This isn’t a shrinking of what I do, it’s expanding the things I want to do, while also simplifying my life. It’s removing the commitment to a job that can sometimes take 10 hours of my week day and creep into weekends, (if not in workload then at least in mental energy).

This frame of simplifying rather than shrinking is one than I think works for me. It’s a metaphor that allows me to get excited about my upcoming retirement. It allows me to see retirement as a wonderful opportunity to expand the use my time on things that allow me to be more of who I want to be. There will be no shrinking, there will definitely be some simplifying.

Morning sun

It is better than coffee, stronger than a multivitamin, and more energizing than sleep or a good workout. It is the warm feeling of the early morning sun.

Bathing in light, not yet too hot, which seeps into my body, much deeper than my skin. While it warms me from the outside, it also invigorates me from the inside. I feel a radiance that is not just an absorption of energy but an emergence of it from within.

This is the power of the early morning sun. Caffeine for the soul.

Live a Lifetime in a Day

I love this metaphor for how to live a meaningful life, “Live a lifetime in a day,” shared by Harvard physician Dr Aditi Nerurkar on The Diary of a CEO podcast. I took the liberty of emphasizing each of the 5 stages for easy reference:

“[w]hat creates a meaningful life… is to live a lifetime in a day.

And so that sounds like this big thing, but all it is, is that when you start your day, think about five things,

five things that you can do in your day to create an arc of a long and meaningful life in one day.

So what does that mean?

Spend a little bit of time in childhood.

So in wonder and play, even if it’s for a few minutes, do something that brings you joy for joy’s sake.

Spend a little bit of time in work.

We all know what that is, and for most of us, it’s a lot of time, but for, you know, it doesn’t have to be paid work, but just something that helps you feel a sense of productivity agency that I can do difficult things and I can overcome.

Spend a few minutes in solitude,

very important for all of the reasons that we’ve talked about today.

Spend some time in community,

so engaging with others, and then

spend some time in retirement or in reflection,

really taking stock of your day. So at the end of the day, when you’re going to bed and you’re putting your head on your pillow, you can say, okay, yes, I lived a meaningful life. I did all of those things.”

~ Dr Aditi Nerurkar on ‘The Diary of a CEO’ with Steven Bartlett: Brain Rot Emergency: These Internal Documents Prove They’re Controlling You!, Feb 15, 2026.

What a beautiful frame to start your day with. Usually I’ve got more reflection to contribute after I share something like this, but I really don’t this morning.

We’d all be a bit more happy, more appreciative of the life we live, if this was our daily goal.

Path to Nowhere

We all do it.

We choose a path that doesn’t take us where we want to go… a path to nowhere.

Endless scrolling on social media. Binge-watching shows instead of pursuing hobbies. Saying yes to everything and stretching ourselves too thin. Procrastinating on big goals by tackling tiny, irrelevant tasks. Staying in our comfort zones, avoiding new skills that scare us. Skipping exercise or eating junk for quick fixes. Remaining friends with negative people who drain our energy. Buying stuff to feel better, but still feeling empty after our purchases, or buying on impulse because it’s easy, and the items aren’t too expensive.

But the costs are real. The path isn’t forward. These are all paths to nowhere.

Moths to the flame

Chris Williamson recently shared this quote:

“You pity the moth confusing a lamp for the moon, yet here you are confusing a screen for the world.” — Jay Alto

Our fixation is intense. We cling to tiny dopamine hits, scrolling unaware of the world around us. Ironically, what we are doing is dividing our attention into tiny video clips, catchy sound bites, and dancing in an emotional roller coaster between humour and rage, while simultaneously focusing our attention on a single screen.

We are merely moths, our screens are the light to which we fly. Our humanity suspended as we meet some primordial desire in a way that would be considered comical if it wasn’t also sad, if not tragic.