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Coaching brain

I havenā€™t been a coach in a long time, but I still feel like my brain wants to go there.

Our hot water tank died this weekend and itā€™s being replaced tomorrow. But today I decided to go to the local community center for a workout, swim, hot tub, and then shower and shave so I didnā€™t have to have a freezing shower at home.

My gym workout was probably a total of 45 minutes. There were a couple really fit people in there doing hard workouts. There were also a lot of guys in their late teens or early 20ā€™s working out. They werenā€™t doing anything wrong or dangerous, but I found myself wanting to coach them.

ā€œYou are swinging your body and cheating, using momentum rather than your muscle, lower the weight and go for better technique.ā€

ā€œYour elbows are flaring out, keep them tucked in.ā€

ā€œThat weight is too light, youā€™re doing sets of 12 and it looks like you can do 20. Maybe try a bit heavier weight.ā€

This was my first time in this gym, and of course I didnā€™t say anything. And the reality is that I might have been doing something where someone else could have given me feedback to improveā€¦ Iā€™m in no way an expert. But I really felt like helping out. I just didnā€™t know how it would be taken, and Iā€™m the newbie that just showed up for the first time.

I guess once a coach, always a coach. Sometimes I just feel the urge to help out, and itā€™s hard not to.

Iā€™m back

Just spent a week at my sisterā€™s house visiting her family and my mom. I managed to get 4 nice hilly walks in, and a casual bike ride, but by far this was the longest Iā€™ve gone without really working out in years. Iā€™ll count the walks as exercise days, but now Iā€™m home and about to hit the treadmill and weights for a nighttime workout session.

Usually I find ways to do way more exercise on holidays. I did do some pushups and leg dips one day, but if Iā€™m honest, I had the time to do that or other body weight workouts on more of the days than I didā€¦ I just didnā€™t do it.

This isnā€™t me beating myself up for taking most of the week off. Rather itā€™s recognition that it can be easy to let things slide if I donā€™t pay attention. At home, my routines make things easy. I wake up, I get a workout done. Itā€™s that simple. On holidays I need to either: build in a routine or make a conscious effort to workout. Or if itā€™s a week or less, give myself permission to have an easy week.

That said, Iā€™m back home and my basement gym is calling me.

Morning walk

Iā€™m visiting my sister (and mom is visiting too). Itā€™s great to be together with family, and to be somewhere where a morning walk doesnā€™t involve rain gear. My wife and I are continuing our tradition of going for morning walks while on holidays. I love that this little vista is just minutes away from my sisterā€™s house.

Holidays can be hard to maintain fitness habits, and I likely wonā€™t be visiting any gyms while here, so these morning walks are going to be a good balance to offset my sisterā€™s awesome cooking and restaurant meals. They are a great way to start the day with something physical, and with some pretty nice views too!

Effort over output

On my fitness journey, Iā€™ve learned that building up my strength with certain exercises does not progress evenly. There are times when I get stuck on a weight and canā€™t seem to improve, and other times when I see surprising progress. I hit plateaus as well as peaks. And it can be a bit demoralizing when I hit a peak and then canā€™t replicate it for days or even weeks.

What Iā€™ve come to realize is that the personal bests donā€™t matter, what really matters is the effort. Today I couldnā€™t lift nearly as heavy as I have in the past. For example, in my morning workout I struggled to get 6 reps of 185lbs once (with assistance) on incline bench. Yet I did 3 sets of 7 reps just a couple weeks ago, with no assistance.

However, I pushed myself really hard today. My muscles got a good burn, and I feel like I left nothing in my reserve tank when I did that heavily assisted last rep today. If I tried another rep my spotter would have had to do more work than me.

Effort over output.

Some days getting to the gym is hard. Some days in the gym are hard. Today was hard, but in a different way. Today was hard because I couldnā€™t lift as heavy as I usually do. I felt I needed more rest between sets, and everything seemed more challenging than usualā€¦ and yet I still pushed myself. I put in maximum effort.

So leaving the gym I felt good. I know that I put in the best effort I could, and I realized that it would have been easy to be disappointed if I paid attention only to my strength during the exercises. However it wasnā€™t the strength output that mattered it was the effort inputā€¦ and with that as the measure, I rocked it! I kicked @$$!

Effort over output for the win.

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The script has flipped

It has taken a few years.

I started my fitness journey in January 2019, and it has occurred to me that over the past year, it has become a challenge to give myself a rest day. It used to be hard to find the time and the motivation to work out. The challenge was wanting to, and doing the necessary work. Now the challenge is allowing myself a rest day.

Iā€™m realizing that while I give most of my body ample rest, (primarily doing just one muscle group in a workout when Iā€™m working under morning time pressure at my home gym), I still work my legs daily with my cardio. My legs are not getting any rest. I need to reevaluate what I define as a workout, allowing myself to skip cardio 2-3 times a week. I also need to take a full rest day more than once every 2 weeks or so.

Iā€™ve gone from it being hard to workout to it being hard to skip a day. And while thatā€™s a script switch Iā€™d like to maintain, Iā€™d also like to ensure that I actually do skip some days. Not enough that it feels easy again, but enough that I feel the benefits of rest between working out.

Still, this is a good place to be! Iā€™d rather be on this side rather than the flip side.

Tiny improvements

Iā€™ve been noticing a few improvements in my workouts recently. Last week I benched a weight that I havenā€™t done since my late 20ā€™ā€™sā€¦ half a lifetime ago. Iā€™m doing a push-up challenge with my buddy but keep forgetting to do them, so the days I do end up needing to catch up I have to do a lot more push-ups to reach my goal. I can do sets of 30 now as easily as I used to do sets up 20. Iā€™ve added 8 pounds to my weighted vest that I wear on my treadmill to walk on an incline. And my leg workouts I do now would have left me painfully sore for days! (That said I still feel the pain two days later, leg soreness after workouts is something Iā€™ll never fully escape.)

My point is that I canā€™t pinpoint a time when this progress happened. Itā€™s not like I woke up one day and added 50 more pounds on the bench press bar. Instead, Iā€™ve been making slow and steady progress. I donā€™t spend hours in the gym, I just commit to cardio and working one muscle group, often for just 3 sets, sometimes two different exercises for 3 setsā€¦ if I can write fast enough in the morning to give me that time.

So, I havenā€™t really added to my workouts significantly at any point. Iā€™ve had no big jumps in progress. Iā€™ve had plateaus, and times when it seems that Iā€™m just in maintenance mode, but recently the tiny improvements have accumulated and Iā€™m noticing the difference. This has been a really positive aspect of my life in the last few years, something that keeps me in a positive frame of mind. It certainly helps to see my own progress, as slow and incremental as it has been.

Itā€™s good for you

A new study shows the benefits of creatine for women, (Study, TikTok summary). We already know the benefits for men, itā€™s nice to see specific research for women, and specifically menopausal women, who tend to be under-researched.

Iā€™m not a medical doctor, I donā€™t pretend to be one. But Iā€™ll share three suggestions that I have followed, based on my research, that can improve long term health.

  1. Take creatine.
  2. Take far more protein than is suggested in daily recommendations.
  3. Exercise regularly, for both cardio and strength.

These are all things that are good for your healthā€¦ and the health of your brain. But donā€™t take my word for it. Look into to these things yourself. Check out doctors Rhonda Patrick, Peter Attia, and Gabrielle Lyon. Oh, and when I went to Instagram to make sure of Gabrielleā€™s first name, the first video that came up was her talking about women increasing protein intake.

I love seeing how the science of healthy living is becoming mainstream.

A bad day of fishingā€¦

The saying goes, ā€œA bad day of fishing is better than a good day at work.ā€ Itā€™s a good metaphor for a lot more than hobbies and employment.

ā€œI donā€™t feel like working out.ā€

ā€œI donā€™t really want to practice my musical instrument.ā€

ā€œI donā€™t have anything to write about today.ā€

ā€œItā€™s just a practice, Iā€™ll skip and go to the game tomorrow.ā€

Do I want to do it right now? Hell no! Will I feel good if I get off my butt and do it? Absolutely!

Pick the battles that matter the mostā€¦ not 7 at once, 2 or 3 max. Set an intention. Do it.

Why? Because a crappy ā€˜I just showed upā€™ workout is better than another skipped workout. And 15 minutes of practice or 250 words written are all examples of things that will make you feel far better after youā€™ve done them, rather than how you feel not doing them.

Itā€™s a mental shift to move the metaphorical mindset from a bad day fishing to a bad day working out/practicing/writing feeling better than a good day not doing these things, because the payoff comes after the event. When you are fishing, even the last cast has potential. But when you are doing ā€˜the workā€™ (be it in the gym, on an instrument, or writing) it still feels like ā€˜the workā€™ and is not filled with the hope and promise of a big fish.

But doing the work, even on a bad day can surprise you. You might (totally unexpectedly) hit a personal best in the gym. You might play a chord combination that youā€™ve struggled with for weeks. You might pump out 1,000 words, or the best piece of writing youā€™ve done in a while. In other words you might just hook a big one. And realistically you might not, but still the act of doing anything is far more rewarding than doing nothing.

Skip another day and the only thing youā€™ll catch is the desire to skip again.

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Here is some Monday motivation from Jocko Willink.

Habits and motivation

Iā€™ve got my weight vest on. However, I donā€™t want to get on the treadmill, which is why Iā€™m wearing the vest. I want to crawl under my blankets and not think about having to shovel the driveway later.

But yesterday was a rest day and I refuse to be someone who misses two days in a row. My habit of regular exercise is part of my identity. Am I motivated right now? Hell no! Am I going to work out immediately after writing this? Absolutely!

Make your habits about who you are and not what you doā€¦ and you donā€™t need motivationā€¦ you just get it done.