I lift heavy in the gym. Not crazy or super strong, but for how much I weigh, I can move some heavy weights. That said, my age has changed my strategy on how I do this⦠safely. When I was younger, Iād often lift to my maximum, my one-rep max. Now, I donāt know what my one-rep max is for any of my exercises? I never try.
Instead, I work to get every set to 10-12 reps. When I can get 10-12 on my third set, thatās when I consider moving up in weight. That happened today on shoulder press. When I move up in weight next week, I will be at that new level for a long time, Iām not going to get to 10 reps any time soon⦠And thatās ok.
I havenāt moved up in weight for bar bench press in a couple years, but I have significantly improved my free weight barbell bench press. Why? With the bar, I feel a lot of pressure on my shoulders. That doesnāt mean I donāt push hard. Iām still only at 5-7 reps for my last 2 sets, I just havenāt seen gains with the bar, and again thatās ok with me.
The point being, with any set Iām still going to the point where Iām struggling to get to 10-12 on my second last set. Iām going to hopefully get 4-7 reps on the 3rd set. Iām going to be pushing my muscles to fatigue. What I wonāt be doing is straining to lift a heavier weight which I can only lift 1-2 times. Those days are over.
Iām so much better at listening to my body now. Iāll lift lighter when I feel fatigued. Iāll adjust my hand placement or change my workout when a set doesnāt feel right. Iāll sacrifice lifting heavier for good form. That said, I still need to do a lot of self-talk to temper pushing hard with pushing smart.
And while Iām doing my best to lift safe and smart, I also want to push hard and make gains. Iāve got a few more years of gains to make, as long as I stay healthy.


