Listen to this podcast of Adam Grant interviewing Emmanuel Acho. Emmanuel shares this quote, without identifying the source and Google hasn’t helped me find it:
“Reaching a goal is the penalty you receive for setting one.”
Soon after, Adam Grant summarizes,
“You like goals on tasks but maybe not goals in life. If I am working on a specific project or if I’m trying to build a specific skill, fine, give me a target I will work towards it, I will grow because of it. But having a goal from my life, that’s where the penalty really hurts by limiting myself.”
Emmanuel then talks about setting objectives rather than goals:
”An objective is energy aimed in a direction… so I want to aim my energy in a direction without any limit.”
I have never been big on goal setting. I think it’s too easy to set goals that are underwhelming and achieve them than it is to truly step out beyond expectations and do something amazing. I think goals impose self-created roadblocks that aren’t there before the goals are set.
That doesn’t mean you don’t dream big. It doesn’t mean you don’t work hard. On the contrary, you arrive for new heights all the time, you just don’t create false end-goals that prevent you from going beyond.
Goals have a purpose, but they should not be your purpose. Your purpose should be greater than the limits goals place on you.
