It’s easy to complain. To be frustrated. To want things to go faster, to want more, to want better.
It’s much harder to appreciate what we have.
Appreciation doesn’t require settling. It doesn’t mean we don’t strive, it doesn’t mean we don’t have desires. It means we acknowledge that what we have now is good. Not ‘good enough’… good.
What do we have to be thankful for? How can we show our appreciation to others? How can we share our gratitude for what we have?
If all that matters is what’s next: the next plateau, promotion, or praise for a job well done… then we aren’t being present.
What are we lucky to have, grateful to experience, fortunate enough to share? What can we appreciate about our experience right now? Because if we can’t figure that out right now, we probably aren’t going to figure it out when we reach our next target or goal. We will just be looking forward to the next step instead.
Meanwhile there is opportunity to enjoy the journey, the moments along the way… and not just the next destination on a long path of next destinations.
Is it really harder to show appreciation, or do we just not spend enough time practicing?